BOM offers the standard features one would expect from a dating site. This is unlike other sites claiming to be free, but that charge members for additional features or upgraded membership. THERAPIST: I think that, for you to have fewer of the kinds of problems you’ve been having, and in order to be a better person in general, you need to make some changes in the kind of person you are – some basic changes in your personality. And, of course, you didn’t hear me say you were a bad person. How long have you had a problem putting on the brakes? I think you need to stop all the very destructive behavior that I outlined for you on the worksheets I gave you, and which I’m sending to your therapist as well. Now, my question to you, if you remember, is how long you’ve had this problem…. People who always see themselves as superior to others hate to see the field of “play” (i.e. They especially hate it when someone else in is a position of greater power or authority. Then you got upset because you’d made a mess of things. You also need to get a more balanced sense of self-worth. You actually helped confirm most of my hunches when you started out this session using the tactic of leveling; that is, trying to intimidate me by subtly denigrating my credentials, trying to throw me on the defensive. Narcissists hate to think anyone “has their number,” so to speak.Not only does BOM offer instant messaging and live text chat, they also offer video chatting with web cameras.This is relatively unheard of in the free dating site world. If you had put on the brakes, you might have really won. What I am saying is that, as an aggressive personality, you have to learn when and when not to pull out the stops, and when and when not to put on the brakes.
The “Faith” section includes questions about your Christian faith, denomination, and church involvement.
Having a member on your friend list allows them to view information such as your personality tests, blog posts and pictures in your scrapbook, which other members will not be able to see.
Book Of Matches also realizes that your privacy and the quality of members are important.
This includes a fully functional search and messaging system.
It is the extras which set this dating site apart, though.